The optimist in me wants to emphasize what a glorious time of year the holidays can be. Thanksgiving evokes a profound sense of nostalgia, a time when the warmth of family and tradition comes together in a celebration of gratitude. The aroma of roasted turkey and savory stuffing fills the air, transporting us to childhood kitchens where laughter and stories were shared.
Gathering around the table, we remember the familiar faces – grandparents who once carved the turkey or siblings who turned the holiday into playful chaos. Each dish carries a story, from secret stuffing recipes to Mom’s cherished pumpkin pie (spoiler alert: it came from a box), connecting generations through shared flavors.
As we recount what we’re thankful for, the nostalgia deepens, reminding us of the bonds that shape our lives. The crackling fireplace, the autumn leaves outside and the heartfelt toasts become markers of time, encapsulating moments of joy, love and togetherness. Holidays offer a pause, inviting us to reflect on our roots and the warmth of home.
But on a deeper level, the holidays are more like a magnifying glass. Magnifying glasses transform our perception, revealing intricate details often overlooked. Whether examining the delicate patterns on a leaf, reading fine print or exploring tiny objects, they enhance our understanding of the world. In this case, I think holidays magnify emotions.
They so often magnify joy, love and happiness. Being surrounded with family and friends, sharing meals and precious memories, it’s easy to look at things with rose-colored glasses and see the good in the world.
But for those who are alone on a holiday, the feeling of loneliness is magnified. There is no one physically to share precious things with, so the discomfort, loneliness and sadness tend to overwhelm. Grief, despair and darkness overcome some during these times, and the magnification of emotions can cause hurt beyond compare.
To those looking forward to the holidays and all the joy they bring – may you and yours bond and create even more memories together. May you feel surrounded with love and cherish each of those around you.
To those dreading the upcoming festivities – may you know that you are loved and cherished no matter how lonely you may feel that day.
To everyone during these times – may you remember the magnifying glass that hovers above all actions and words this season. Put good into the world to be amplified and be louder than the bad. After all, it’s the little things that can make the biggest difference in the world.
