My children have an interesting way of looking at a calendar that is inaccurate and yet totally endearing. I can’t explain the inaccuracies in any way that makes sense to them, though I do try.

A common scenario among many farmers is that one of their children wants to continue the farming business while their other children do not. What can farmers do in a situation like this as they plan for the future?

For a long time, they ignored some fundamental problems and decided to walk on eggshells rather than address each other’s concerns. Now, superficial problems pop up and a big blow-up ensues every time.

Communication during peak times, like harvest, can have many volcanic events. As I write this, I reflect on Allan Vyhnalek's list of emotions that block negotiation and therefore plug up communication. 

Farming and sports both require some grit, brains and luck. Being physically tough is important, but being mentally tough makes a bigger difference. In farming and sports, if you give me a choice between talent and heart, I’ll take heart every time.

Successful transition planning begins with a first and formal transition conversation, and how the first conversation goes often sets the stage for the entire process. Get off on a good foot, and the entire process is smoother.